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Thanks, tagged for later reading. Robert Frost once said "A liberal is a man too broadminded to take his own side in a quarrel".

However that is no longer true, They know what they want and will do anything necessary to accomplish it. Alinsky was blunt and straight forward with his formula.
Commented: Monday, December 4th, 2017 @ 11:17 am By: Bobby Tony
Talent not required, not even an audience.
Commented: Monday, December 4th, 2017 @ 10:33 am By: Bobby Tony

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A couple of training tips from an expert (not me):

If you can't control your trigger pull: AIM HIGH
If you can't control your breathing: THE OTHER GUY WILL
If you can't control your accuracy: WE WILL ISSUE YOU A SHOTGUN AND PUT YOU UP FRONT

Nothing beats more bullets going downrange than is coming back uprange.
Commented: Monday, December 4th, 2017 @ 5:49 am By: Bobby Tony
There used to be a joke in the military about medals and honors. The story was that a soldier was recommended for the Medal of Honor but the Commander downgraded it to an a$$ chewing.

Like the rebel statues issue, perhaps all that is required is a footnote for relative innocent information. If the information is more serious then perhaps an addendum added to the proclamation. In more severe cases perhaps a preface before the narrative.

You cannot erase history. Somewhere and somehow, there will always be a record of the original gift without the revised information. Correcting the record at the original source may be the only way to properly show context.

I suggest that most of these awards simply be downgraded as needed.
Commented: Sunday, December 3rd, 2017 @ 6:28 pm By: Bobby Tony

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For the Record the game is over. I can't wait until 5:00 PM tomorrow to get the results an a play by play description.
Commented: Sunday, December 3rd, 2017 @ 10:15 am By: Bobby Tony
As someone who has the vocal range of at least 1/2 an octave, I have always been amazed at Mel's ability to span the range of several octaves almost effortlessly. Here is a link to him and Ella singing nonsense, but doing it very well.

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Commented: Saturday, December 2nd, 2017 @ 3:11 pm By: Bobby Tony
My cup (inbox) runneth over with witticisms from various sources.

Commented: Saturday, December 2nd, 2017 @ 2:39 pm By: Bobby Tony

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Okay, I confess. The first thing I look for is the age of the recently departed. That pretty much sets the tone for my day.
Commented: Friday, December 1st, 2017 @ 9:55 am By: Bobby Tony
And Audrey did not do a bad job with it either. Old Blue Eyes also made a hit from another one of Johnny's songs.

One for My Baby (and One More for the Road)


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Commented: Friday, December 1st, 2017 @ 6:32 am By: Bobby Tony
I agree about the mortality. I have always known that I was in the Double Jeopardy! Bonus Round for 49 years and counting.

I'll Take ALIVE & WELL for $1000 Ted.

Commented: Thursday, November 30th, 2017 @ 10:47 am By: Bobby Tony
Of all the songs we could chose from, our 1963 CHS graduating class chose Moon River by Andy Williams.

My vote was for a classmate who I had a semi-crush on but I guess it did not gather enough votes.

youtu.be
Commented: Thursday, November 30th, 2017 @ 8:11 am By: Bobby Tony

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Just a passing thought, but I think that before they invade N. Korea they should require each infantry woman to date a North Korean. After the breakup there will be no problem with motivation to kill those lousy ba$tards.
Commented: Wednesday, November 29th, 2017 @ 7:48 am By: Bobby Tony

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Thanks for a very perceptive post.

"I have often heard the level of grief is proportional the depth of the love."

However, sometimes grief is cumulative and reflects the helplessness of our ability to prevent death which has always been a given but hidden part of our expectations.

I believe one of the major causes of depression among the old is the constant remainder of past loved ones as your friends, classmates and acquaintances pass away.
Commented: Wednesday, November 29th, 2017 @ 6:14 am By: Bobby Tony
May a bit too long for the comment section but here goes.

Actually, I thought you were expressing others feelings about Asians and Indians. That is a common belief and perhaps true as genetics is a complicated science. We may one day find out that all our preaching about equality is not supported in science. I may once again have to revise my biases.

Yes, I did attend segregated schools. My home county, DeKalb, in Georgia did not integrate until the middle to late 1960s. My pre-teen years were in the City of Atlanta where there was literally a railroad that separated the white from the colored community. It was not always that way. Sometime in the 1950 the other side of the tracks became predominately colored. To solve the problem the city simply changed the name of a road. On the white side the road was renamed Oakdale Rd. After you crossed the railroad tracks, the road continued to be its original name. Whitefoord Avenue. (name changed in 1960)

Within the course of a single day (or perhaps hour) the average southerner could interact with some of the most wonderful genteel people and immediately interact with some of the most despicable who ever walked the face of the earth.
I have written several stories of what I took as a normal childhood that in retrospect illustrate what a dysfunctional society I lived and grew up around.
Most southerners have never reconciled the fact that their relatives fought on the wrong side of the civil war. They are able to make the great leap that it was not about slavery but about rebellion over the North took advantage of them. The entire economic system of the plantation life was based on taking advantage over others for economic benefit.
A good many southerners have a mental list of numerous things that justify the civil war, which usually starts with "most did not own slaves" and ends with "most slaves were treated well." It would be so much easier if we could just admit. "Hey, we were on the wrong side of history and humanity."
As much as I loved being raised in the south, I know that you have to suffer to some degree schizophrenia to properly understand the history and allure of being a southerner. How else could we have developed so many great authors like William Faulkner, Pat Conroy, Tennessee Williams, James Dickey, Margaret Mitchell and of course Samuel Langhorne Clemens.
Most of us have our own version that justifies our puritanical excess. In The Scarlet Letter's preface, Hawthorne actually alludes to this history, taking blame for the actions of these ancestors and hoping that any curse brought about by their cruelty will be removed.
With your experience with the Catholic school, you no doubt know the drill. Confession is good for the soul. Hail Mary x 3 (this is not criticism of the Catholic religion, it works)
Yes, the South is a wondrous land and culture, but it has had its flaws like any other society. Ali was a separatist who bought into the segregationist culture as espoused by Malcom X, yet he was instinctively a affable man who was rebelling against his life in Louisville, Kentucky.
Commented: Sunday, November 26th, 2017 @ 5:51 am By: Bobby Tony
Diane, you make great points and my only quibble would be the assumption "everyone understood that Asians and Indians are naturally smarter." I think it is more culturally based than ethnicity.

But one think is clear, if it takes a score of 100 to pass then everyone should be judged on the score assuming the test is the same for all. No handicap system is sufficient or needed when we realize that individuals have differing abilities and limitations. I depart from the path when we assign that trait to groups genetically.

Affirmative Action is an abomination that is perhaps as bad as the Segregated schools of my youth. Both are based on a characteristic that we certain groups are inherently inferior to other groups based on their race or ethnic background.
Commented: Saturday, November 25th, 2017 @ 4:34 pm By: Bobby Tony
Part of the problem may be trying to think and type on this small keyboard at same time. It is more than this addled brain and arthritis fingers can manage.

Still in back seat enroute.
Commented: Saturday, November 25th, 2017 @ 10:39 am By: Bobby Tony
Agree, poorly worded previous comment by me. No doubt racism was reinforced by government in the 50s and now reinforced in reverse the 00s.
I think my point was the seed is in the heart placed there by upbringing, but must be cultivated to bloom and no doubt media and government know how to spread the sh!t.

Actually I don’t disagree with anything in post or comments.
Commented: Saturday, November 25th, 2017 @ 10:18 am By: Bobby Tony

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Here is a Sparks Notes summary of the book which might encourage someone who is suffering from grief to read the complete book.

www.sparknotes.com
Commented: Saturday, November 25th, 2017 @ 7:59 am By: Bobby Tony
As a born and bred Southerner, I have to attest that there was and still is a large amount of racism within the south. The problem was legally solved with the 1964 Civil Right act. Anyone less than 53 has not experienced "LEGAL" discrimination in the USA, but the definition has been expanded to include any critism of anyone not white. We have yet to solve the social problem of stereotyping and I doubt we ever will. Our system was created to be self correcting over time and has served that purpose with varying degrees of success.

I think you are dead on with your statement:

"I am most offended by the underlying stereotypes that the government and education continues to perpetuate in their policies."

It was wrong to base a system of "separate but equal" in the law just as it is wrong to use "Affirmative Action" in a system to correct past wrongs. As a young boy, I was oblivious to the distinction of "equal." The distinction was that in my Era in the south we were taught that all men were created equal unless you were black. It was codified in law if you blurred the definition of 'equal'. Trying to use law to correct societal mores is a lame solution.

“When mores are sufficient, laws are unnecessary; when mores are insufficient, laws are unenforceable.”
― Émile Durkheim


My transition was gradual until May of 1968 when a person of color saved my life. It was what Morris Massey called a "significant emotional event" which changes your whole behavior or attitude and forces you a to undergo a noticeable change. Until we as a nation have a 'SEE' we will continue to attempt to use laws to determine outcome.

Our problem is not systematic within the government system, it is systematic within the human heart. I think you are 100% correct in being offended.

All anyone should expect from the govenment is to insure a level game board that is not tilted in either direction. Unfortunately, human nature seeks to correct result by altering the rules of the game. It is most difficult for us to admit that the fault lies within.

Thanks for a great thought provoking article that points out that the solution can often be as bad as the problem.

Iphone from back seat at 65 MPH, please forgive errors.
Commented: Saturday, November 25th, 2017 @ 7:30 am By: Bobby Tony
I once heard a lecture on Affirmitive Action where the speaker proposed that the best affirmitive action you can take is to get off your a$$ and do something; anything. As simplistic as it sounded at the time the speaker went on to discuss that it was not the system that was responsible for results, it was the participant.

He ended with the quote.
"It's the set of the sail, not the direction of the wind that determines your destination!"

Or as the old farmer used to say.

"Every tub rest on it\s own bottom."

I agree with both Stan and Alex. I want my next surgery if needed to be performed buy a rich, happy doctor, who could have quit working years ago but loves his job so much he would do it for free. (OK I made up that part about free)
Commented: Friday, November 24th, 2017 @ 10:23 am By: Bobby Tony

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I have long been a supporter of the Fair Tax but doubt it will ever come to a vote. It takes the taxing authority out of the government and puts it in the hand of the people.

Taxes are only paid at the time of purchase and not at time of earned. It also would capture all the "Off Book" income from drug dealers, unreported tips, and any number of income which is not caught by our ""voluntary" income tax. Money earned is of no use if it is not put to use at some point. We have a current system that encourages hiding income rather than circulating it based on an individual's wants and needs.

Like I said we need to seperate the collection method of taxes from the budget process. Our system should match spending with revenue with very limited exceptions and not long term programs that are not funded but based on some do good feeling of helping people. Doubtful if any will read the link below, but it does not punish the poor by making them pay due to the Pre-bate

fairtax.org
Commented: Friday, November 24th, 2017 @ 10:04 am By: Bobby Tony

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Since the top 50% ($8.6m AGI) pay 97% of income tax collected and only 36% of filers itemize, we can not have a tax cut without cutting tax on the rich.

I think our system is complicated precisely because politicians like to argue % paid rather than actual dollars paid. See table for both actual $ and percent. By my simple math, I would rather take 10% of $8,000,000 rather than 50% of $1,0000,000 but what would I know. Hell look at the selfie and you can tell I am not the brightest bulb on the tree.

Everyone thinks the rich should pay more if defining “rich” means anyone who makes more than me.

taxfoundation.org


Updated from iphone excuse errors
Commented: Thursday, November 23rd, 2017 @ 11:42 am By: Bobby Tony
I apologize for the brevity of the post. I was packing for a holiday trip and did not spend sufficient time. David's Father Jack Cassidy also suffered from alcoholism as well as bi-polar issues. My best memory of Jack is from his appearances on Columbo and Mccloud. His most practiced smile was memorable because it could convey both Happiness and Mischievous intent. His death was tragic.

David suffered from the same affliction of dementia that his mother did.

Here is a clip from the Partridge family bad boy Danny Bonaduce discusing his relationship with David.

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His 1/2 brother Shaun Cassidy is also an accomplished performer and producer. Sometimes performing talent carries a high toll on the performer.
Commented: Thursday, November 23rd, 2017 @ 10:23 am By: Bobby Tony

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Like all simplifications there is more than meets the eye. Assume W-2 is AGI income from 2016 tax. Investment and Dividend income is at different rate. Granted this is overly simplified which indicates the difficulty with tweaking the current system like they are trying to do. That is why I prefer the Fair tax.

In the Calculator enter the AGI (line 37) from you 2016 to get an idea of the impact.
Commented: Tuesday, November 21st, 2017 @ 8:45 am By: Bobby Tony

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Got the Pickup Truck, Got the Flag, Got the Vodka, Got the Fuel Efficient tail gate.

What is missing in this scenario?

Commented: Saturday, November 18th, 2017 @ 9:18 am By: Bobby Tony
I don't think they were selling their souls, perhaps something a bit more physical. We are all "W's" it is just question of price.
Commented: Thursday, November 16th, 2017 @ 7:41 am By: Bobby Tony
Dangerous ground here, but Ben is right. "Sometimes we get wishy-washy about our standards - was it really so bad?"

Maybe we need more Katie Scarlett O'Hara women among us. Perhaps a Statue or two here and there.
Commented: Wednesday, November 15th, 2017 @ 10:33 am By: Bobby Tony
Somewhere in this scenario there is parallel to my mom's admonition.

"Be sure to wear clean underwear, you may get in an accident!"
Commented: Wednesday, November 15th, 2017 @ 9:49 am By: Bobby Tony

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The Year of Magical Thinking
by Joan Didion
Link: a.co
Commented: Wednesday, November 15th, 2017 @ 8:51 am By: Bobby Tony

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If you don't know who Red Green is, you may be missing out on some laughs. Here is a preview of the book that might whet your appetite. ( I have not commercial interest in this book)

Scroll down for the first except The Eternal Question

books.google.com
Commented: Monday, November 13th, 2017 @ 10:19 am By: Bobby Tony
Shelly Passed away on September 1, 2017 at 92. His comedy was unique and often provoked thought. He was a story teller. Someone once asked him if he was a stand up comic, he replied "No, I use a Stool!"
RIP
Commented: Sunday, November 5th, 2017 @ 5:35 am By: Bobby Tony
Thanks to Alex for putting some meat on the bones.
Commented: Wednesday, November 1st, 2017 @ 11:22 am By: Bobby Tony

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Jackie may be an acquired taste. (Smokey and the Bandit being the exception) I had no choice because The Honeymooners was one shows on TV in 1955 that our whole family watched ( I was 10 and did not get a vote). I would venture a guess that is where I may have acquired my stereotype of the New York working man personality. Of course, later, after meeting and working with quite a few New York natives, I realized it was not a stereotype but a badge of honor for most of them. Ralph was not the first or last man who thought he was the boss of the house.

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Commented: Wednesday, November 1st, 2017 @ 10:51 am By: Bobby Tony
I hope the reading audience will forgive two aging (or at least one) gentlemen's walk down Memory Lane.

One of my Favorite songwriters was John Stewart formerly of The Kingston Trio. He wrote a song shortly before his death in 2008 about New Orleans and Hurricane Katrina. If it is possible to transport ala Star Trek, this song does it for me regarding New Orleans.

"I never Got To see New Orleans" John Stewart
Here is a Video someone made using the song as background.

youtu.be
Commented: Tuesday, October 31st, 2017 @ 8:40 am By: Bobby Tony
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